2000-05-10 | 11:45:51

ok, i'm not even sure if i should get into this, but it's been on my mind lately, so i figure, best to exorcise it out of my brain and onto yours.

what is it with men and lesbian sex fantasies? the best explanation i've ever heard was from a guy who said that men get off on lesbian sex fantasies because they imagine being with two women at once. ok. i can see that, but wouldn't that mean they'd get off thinking of threesome sex fantasies?

the whole lesbian sex thing is very voyeuristic, you know? very non-involved, if you will. perhaps this dovetails nicely into my last entry about men and their fears of attachment. yes, i think it does, alrighty!

by just WATCHING women doing it to each other, men have the pleasure of seeing sex objects in action without actually having to INTERACT with them. there is no pressure of actually SPEAKING to them or having to deal with the evident pressures of FOREPLAY or having to deal at all with the women's PLEASURE or lack of. plus, there is no need to CUDDLE or SPOON afterwards. i wonder--after the act, do guys imagine the two girls bringing them a SANDWICH?

hmmm...no, i'm not bitter, just FAS-CI-NATED by the male species. ok, a little bitter, but still fascinated.

footnote: this entry is dedicated to my friend, brian...lord of the male lesbian fantasy.

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